Love Gift Rules
Here’s how to take control of your church’s contributions.Frank Sommerville, JD, CPA | posted 5/14/2008

Christ commands us to love one another. Since the church follows His commands, the church wants to express that love, usually by blessing someone with a love gift. Frequently, the church will receive a love offering for someone in need or in appreciation of a member. The Internal Revenue Service does not mind love gifts as long as the church follows the tax rules. This article details those rules.
Donor RulesIn all instances, the church must approve the love gift and take control of the contributions. For example, if Ms. Myway wants to bless Pastor Loving by giving him a love gift through the church, then the church should not accept that gift. Ms. Myway is controlling how the money is spent. On the other hand, if the church decides to bless Pastor Loving with a love gift, it may accept the donation from Ms. Myway. If the church controls how the money is spent, then the donation qualifies for charitable contribution credit. On the other hand, if Ms. Myway is using the church as a conduit to give a personal gift to Pastor Loving, then she does not have a tax-deductible contribution and the church has risked its tax-exempt status.
Four Types of Love GiftsThe church may give love gifts in four (4) circumstances: (1) to meet a benevolent need, (2) to compensate a visiting minister, (3) to compensate an employee or (4) to bless a ministry. Each type of gift has rules that are specific to that type.
Benevolent Love GiftsBenevolent love gifts have two characteristics: (1) the recipient has a need, and (2) the recipient cannot presently meet that need. The IRS has avoided defining "need," preferring to allow the courts to define the term. Since no court has defined it so far, churches should use the common, everyday meaning of "need." Generally, "need" is a synonym for "necessity." As a result, the church should only meet needs that represent a necessity for the recipient. Most commentators believe a need should relate to food, shelter, clothing, transportation or health care items.
The church must document these two elements in writing. The documentation is intuitive: the church must confirm the need and the lack of resources. For example, if a family cannot pay the rent, the church may call the landlord and confirm the rent has not been paid. The person making the call writes a memo to be filed, documenting the conversation. The church then secures a written statement from someone who is knowledgeable about the family's finances that the family does not have the money to pay the rent. Many churches find a written application helpful in documenting benevolent requests. If you email me at fsommerville@nonprofitattorney.com, I will be happy to send you sample benevolence application.



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Malcolm White
I do not remember receiving an answer to my above question which is. Is a determination letter the only legal document for determining if a ministry is 501c3? what about incorporation papers etc.?
marie Hall
I would like to know can the church allow the members to give the pastor a love offering on his Pastor's Anniversary in an envelope in a box in the church and that money (hundrens to several thousand dollars) not be recorded by the church, he don't have to tell the members how much was given nor do it have to be reported to the IRS by the church?
Laurie Billings
Very informative....My comment isn't so much for the person who is providing it. I am thankful for the very well put out information. Where i have the problem is that, i have already paid taxes on the money that I am giving to someone as a love gift, and for that person to have to pay taxes on that said amount of money is ridiculous!!!!!!
Malcolm %%var.lastname%%
We have given ministries love gifts in the past to help support their ministry.Is the determination letter the only legal docment to establish a ministries as tax exempt? We are in the process of filiing our 501c3 but have not received a determination letter. We have been incorporated through our state.Don't that count as a legal ministry?Could you email me with an answer at pastormalcolm@cox.net. Thank you
Anonymous
I anticipate many churches are not aware of these rules and how they cannot earmark for certain people.
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